Published: January 12, 2025 at 3:07:32 PM
One thing I've found about chastity is that it needs a lot of things to contrast. I guess that's true for a lot of BDSM, but I think it's particularly true in this case. The main goal of denial isn't simply not giving him something. The goal is to make him miss that thing, to crave it and not have it. That's why the tease and denial is really just one thing. For me, it's less about denial and more about creating desire. The fun part is figuring out where the peak of maximum frustration is. 😈 If I tease him too much he'll get used to it and know what to expect. The same thing is true with too much denial. I tried it initially and quickly realized that was a mistake. Over time he will just find comfort in whatever is happening. And I feel my job as a keyholder is to constantly shake things up, so that doesn't happen 😈 Of course even I get predictable, but the only way around it would become completely unhinged and I don't think that's the way either. 😅 Though, I am sure it would make for interesting content. Femdom fever dream, trapped in chaotic-horny hell? Haha, well, maybe on Halloween, but that's not my point here. 🤭
What I am trying to say here is that I love alternating things that are sort of opposing each other, in one or more ways. Like giving him a lot of visual stimulation and then blindfolding him later, or making him eat my pussy, while his penis is caged, or in this case giving him a very intense oily teasing session with a lot of touching, after I've been ignoring his penis for a while. 🥵After he managed to cum from prostate stimulation, it is tempting to lock him up and just say "Forget you even have a dick." and try to make him cum caged. But regret is preferable to forget 😈 I want to create desire without giving it any outlet. I want to feel that pressure.
Anyway, it's a weekend and I wanted to spend some time playing games, before heading out to see friends. But his company is always so much more fun when we start like this. Love how he's silently squirming and trying not to be obtrusive with his horniness. Which only leaves him even more frustrated. 🤭 And it's all even better when his dick didn't get much action for a while before and then he gets the oil, edging, and complete overload of touches all over him, before locking him back to the cage again. And then he has to think about what's going to happen next. 😈 Will I let him out again? Or will I switch it again and not give him a single touch? It's pretty much a coin toss and the not knowing is driving him crazy. I have to admit, it's kinda hot when somebody can't get you off his mind like this.